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The Coaching Librarian

Every other week,* I share tips to help leaders build more empowered teams by developing a coaching approach to leadership. I'm a leadership & career development coach with a dozen years experience as an academic librarian, so the examples come from library work, but you don't have to be a librarian to learn something valuable! *Some issues are email-only, so be sure to subscribe!

Train your brain to choose curiosity

The opportunity to focus on coaching for an extended period of time, learn from Angela as an expert and facilitator, and connect with colleagues who are also interested in leading with curiosity is a magical combination. ~Kim ❤️ We all need a little more magic in our lives, don't we? The 2025 cohort of Lead With Curiosity just wrapped up, and I'm gathering feedback from participants. The 2026 dates are still TBA. If you're interested enough to want to have a voice in when that will be, click...
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Using a coaching approach when you're short on time

In a meeting with the current Lead With Curiosity cohort, I made a participant laugh by asking an unexpected question: What opportunities does the first week of the fall semester open for using a coaching approach? Of course I phrased the question that way on purpose. This time of year tends to be incredibly hectic for academic librarians. Been there, done that. And that makes it hard to make the time to actually practice coaching your team. But I didn't want us to get stuck in that space....
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Giving feedback using a coaching approach

This week, I’m fully focusing on the Lead With Curiosity jumpstart week plus keeping up with the discussion forums in Coaching as a Leadership Skill at Library Juice Academy. I was thinking about taking a week off, but then I got some feedback about this post in particular that made me decide it’s worth a re-run! I originally shared it in January 2024. I'd love to hear how it lands for you! Someone asked this question: I'm new to managing. I have a new hire who reacts almost fearfully to...
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5 ways to ask better coaching questions

I’m looking forward to a busy July, and getting ready for it has coaching questions on my mind! This month, I'm teaching Coaching as a Leadership Skill, a 4-week fully asynchronous course for Library Juice Academy. And then the jumpstart session for Lead With Curiosity: Coaching skills for library leaders is later in the month. You have until July 15 to join us! In both, we spend a good amount of energy on learning to ask effective coaching questions, because it takes time and effort to build...
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"Why does a library leader need coaching skills as professional development?"

I had a whole draft ready to go for you today about common ways to improve your coaching questions, but then someone sent in a question that preempted that! So you can look forward to a discussion of coaching questions next time! Today, though, we’re just about 3 weeks away from the deadline to register for Lead With Curiosity: Coaching skills for library leaders, so it feels pretty urgent to respond to this question: How do you advocate for the value of coaching in a way that will convince...

How can you start to put some of these coaching ideas into practice?

This week, I’d like to share my experience of getting started actually coaching someone else for the very first time. I’ve shared this story before here, but a lot of folks have joined since then! And it bears repeating, because a lot of library leaders share some of the same fears that I had. So I hope that this reassures you that you don’t have to wait until you feel like a fully competent coach to start practicing at least a little bit of this! I’ll drop a quick reminder here that if you...

Understanding how trauma affects your team's willingness to be coached

Before I jump into today’s newsletter, I’m super excited to share that I recently appeared on a podcast! I joined Lorene Kennard on the Librarian Linkover to talk about coaching and leading with curiosity, as well as some potentially controversial opinions about what skills I’d like to see more librarians develop these days. Here’s the direct link, or you can find it on all of the major podcast platforms. Last time, I talked about the reality that you’re most likely going to stumble several...

Knock me down 9 times but I get up 10

Yes, yes I am starting today with an early Cardi B reference 😂 The hardest part of developing a coaching approach to leadership is that you're going to feel knocked down over and over, but you just have to keep resetting your intentions to try again tomorrow. One of the major challenges is that you can't expect everyone to just magically open up and engage in the way you're hoping for them to respond. You'll probably get at least some resistance from employees who have good reasons to not...

Make sure everyone on your team feels supported

One of the big stories in the onslaught of bad news coming out of the US lately has been the systematic dismantling of DEIA. So we're no longer allowed to openly talk about equity and inclusion. OK. I've been in this long enough to remember when we discussed many of the targeted policy measures under the label of "affirmative action." The words we use change and our understanding of the scope of the work has expanded. But the fundamental work to move toward treating everyone more fairly...

Coaching exercises to help you (and your team) reclaim your sense of agency

Sending out that last edition of this newsletter was really scary. It’s a lot easier for me to talk about coaching skills than it is to talk about myself like that. I don’t even have words for how much I appreciate those who responded with messages of support. And fewer people unsubscribed than I feared! So thank you for quietly supporting me by still being here! Two weeks ago, I was feeling frozen. Every day since has felt like another barrage of bad news, and it would be easy to still be...

Every other week,* I share tips to help leaders build more empowered teams by developing a coaching approach to leadership. I'm a leadership & career development coach with a dozen years experience as an academic librarian, so the examples come from library work, but you don't have to be a librarian to learn something valuable! *Some issues are email-only, so be sure to subscribe!